Communication
Categories: General
communication is Vital to every relationship is interacting and spending time together. While we all know that communication is not just verbal, all aspects of our lives are governed by this fundamental function.
With your spouse: books have been written and research established that men and women are wired differently; therefore there can be no single interpretation to one problem. ‘Accepting these differences and working our way around it is what helps a relationship grow,’ said doctor. Misunderstanding often happens when one or both the spouses withdraw. A change of scenario is one way to deal with the silence. Forgiveness is the ultimate remedy. Research shows that forgiving is a healing process for oneself as well, allowing the couple to look beyond the situation and work towards a common goal of bonding and mutual self- respect.
With your child: often parents encounter “parental failure”, when children don’t listen to them. Defining the role of a parent, a lady in the audience said, ‘parents should treat their child like a kite. Let him fly, but pull the strings as and when required.’ Our society is going through adolescence and we are all trying to copy with it. About healthy emotional bank accounts, doctor said, ‘ for any strong relationship, it is important to concentrate on building deposits ( though encouragement and praise) than withdrawals( through negativity or criticism)
With extended family: common courtesies are often taken for granted, yet these are the key to maintaining relations. How do you interact with your husband’s parents? Or what should you do if you have sister-in- law who is intrusive? ‘The way to grasp these nettles is to talk. Being helpful and fair in contributing to the household chores, being assertive not aggressive can go a long way,’ the unwritten laws of kindness and impromptu acts of love can make a difference.